Let’s say you are female looking to hook up with a male to raise children.
Let’s say candidate #1 is boring but predictably stable, providing you and your children with a solvent future.
Let’s say candidate #2 is exciting but predictably unstable, providing you and your children an unpredictable future.
What would you choose?
I think, if you as a female have a choice, you would somehow choose both.
To do so you might stay with male #1 and then move on to male #3. And then…
Let’s say you are a male looking up to hook up with a female to raise children.
Do you seriously think, as a male, that this is in any way seriously different from the above?
We all, female or male, face the same dilemma.
Choose… and as necessary, rechoose, wisely.